Seems like I made a new site for some reason! Thoughtson42.com is still online for now but this will be my new home. Maybe I’ll bring the To42 name over to this site but only time will tell.
Hopefully you’ll see some slightly more regular posts from me here on out! Once again, time will tell!
The title of the video, and this post about it are an exaggeration. That said, the video does a great job at walking you through how to handle disrespect towards yourself and others. You are not the source, you are only the target. First their disrespect is not about you. It can come from several sources, including but not limited
Community can be difficult to find and even more difficult to keep. As Marco says: Communities form, change, and dissolve over time. … We change, too. I didn’t move on from most of those solely because they changed — it was usually because we both changed, and it was no longer a good fit.
I’m running a campaign to help toward Relay FM’s St Jude fundraiser. My goal is $500 so if you can donate please do!!! Oh and I’ll match the first $150 in donations (excluding my own)! Donate here St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital gives totally free care to children and their families that are battling cancer. It’s an amazing cause and
So I LOVE the discord community of Off-Nominal and while we’re not super diverse I always try to approach things with diversity in mind. I’ll note that as a community we’re working really hard to improve our diversity and we will do better (see more of what we’re doing to improve and help). So one of the most common things
I want to tell you something so you can better understand me and so that I don't have to hide behind lies or half truths anymore. I'm sorry that I've lied but this is a difficult thing for most people and especially when you're the one going through it. We all have routines, we go through most of them every
Dancers love to see those cool shots of themselves on the dance floor doing their thing. The photos can be serious, funny, completely wacky or full of emotion. Some photographers are fantastic at capturing these moments, some of us are improving with every shot. I'd like to tell you a bit about my current thought process when I photograph dancers.
We enjoyed achieving things, meeting goals and such. But more and more I've found we derive happiness from those around us, be they fleeting or anchors in our lives. It's not about the monuments we build or the things we create. It's about letting our emotions flow into those around us, changing their lives with your own. For every action.
The difficult thing with social anxiety is that you are inherently scared of social situations but you still crave them. We're just like everyone else, we still like to meet people and hang out with our friends. It's just more difficult. Hopefully if if you have anxiety you're able to find something that lets you shed those fears at least
The other day I was driving and it was pouring down rain. I was driving more carefully as the weather demanded it, but not everyone was. I got frustrated with the people that were driving fast, tailgating or rubber necking at accidents. And this was a long three and a half hour drive in the rain so I got frustrated
This morning a co-workers car wouldn't start so I gave him a ride. No biggie, nothing any normal person wouldn't do in my place. Sure I was already at work at it was almost 8 but what was I going to say, "no"? So 2 o'clock rolls around and he's asks if when I drop him off I can jump
